Saturday, June 27, 2009
Friday, June 26, 2009
Ears and such
We have an appointment with the Early Intervention folks in July and a nutritionist will come during the initial evaluation. I'm very happy about that, because my biggest priority right now is getting this girl on solid foods.
In the meantime, my face turned bright red overnight, along with my upper body. Now my legs and feet are red too. My body is hot and really really itchy. I saw my doc this morning (thanks to Trish for babysitting Sam for me!) and he said it's one of two things (he thinks). Either I had strep some time in the recent past and this is my body's reaction to it, or I am having an allergic reaction to something else. So, now I'm on penicillin and doubled my dosage of steroids (I should be weight lifting with all these steroids!) and we'll see how the weekend goes. Since penicillin is a cousin to the other antibiotic I'm definitely allergic to, I don't know what to expect this weekend.

I took a quick picture of myself to show you how much "better" I am. My lips are a bit swollen too and I'm itchy all over. Surely it will get better. I am still dealing with jet lag too, so this is just an annoyance on top of everything else I need to do. Pray for me though!
Thursday, June 25, 2009
Pics
We're seeing her pediatrician again today. He called yesterday with some updates and concerns about vaccinations and such. They need to make a growth chart for her too, and I had forgotten to bring all of her weights. We're not sure if this is normal for her (to be so tiny) or if she had a rapid decrease in percentiles at some point, so we'll know more today. Also, her ears seem to be doing a bit better and she's regained some hearing. I think I will get a referral to an ENT so we can assess just how bad the damage is. She definitely is not hearing everything.
Sam has been having a hard time with her, but yesterday was a much better day than any other. I'm figuring out a few things that I had neglected to do before (like ask him to go potty every hour to avoid accidents). I've been doing a little bit of spoiling with him for the last few days, but his grandparents are leaving today and life begins as normal once they go. No more spoiling, just getting into the groove of life. Sounds easy, right? We'll see...
I'll update more after the doctor's visit this afternoon.
Monday, June 22, 2009
Doctor Visit
Can you imagine flying with two ruptured ear drums? It's no wonder she cried the whole way home. My poor baby!
I noticed two days after we got her some pus and waxy stuff coming out of her ear. A lot of it. I thought then that she might have an ear infection, but we needed to wait to see a doctor here. Then on the airplane, I noticed some goo in her ear completely sealing up her ear canal. Yesterday morning she was completely deaf. A couple hours later the pus and waxy stuff started coming out again and I realized she had ruptured her ear drum.
That was confirmed today. You should have seen the doctor's face when he looked in her ears. I know he's seen some bad stuff, but he said this was terrible. He said both of her ears were the same, both perforated.
She must be in such pain! Look at how she's had to cope with pain in the past - it breaks my heart to know she's not exhibiting the pain because of how nobody has paid attention to her in the past. I hope we can show her the love and care we need to even though she's not expressing how badly she hurts.
Hopefully she'll be on the road to recovery in 24 hours. At least we know now. We'll deal with her other issues (if she has any) in two weeks at our follow-up.
Home
Friday, June 19, 2009
Heading Home
Wednesday, June 17, 2009
It's Official

Monday, June 15, 2009
Carolina & Co.



Friday, June 12, 2009
A Sweet Day
Thursday, June 11, 2009
Smiles from Across the Ocean

Every day she's revealing a little more of what she's capable of. She said "Hi" to us today and mimmicks a lot of what we do, like blowing raspberries and clapping her hands or playing peek-a-boo. She's running around like crazy (tiny steps though), but is still very timid when it comes to getting out of her familiar surroundings, i.e. the hotel room. She's still not used to diapers either, because they don't use diapers in the orphanage.
I think Sam will love her. She's a great fit for our family. Last night when we were skyping with Sam, he got very concerned about why she was crying. Bill finally had to tell him that she was very tired and that seemed to help.
One of us is going to go to the orphanage on Tuesday to take pictures and talk with the orphanage director, and maybe take some presents too.
Videos of Carolina
Wednesday, June 10, 2009
Introducing Carolina!

She's not following any of the normal orphanage-raised child protocols, as in, she is making eye contact, she is falling asleep in our arms, she is begging to be held, she loves riding in her Baby Bjorn and she has already learned to say "more" in sign language, so she's communicating with us.
She can nod her head for yes and shake it for no. She can say "gege" (big brother) for Sam (while looking at his picture) and she reaches out to Bill and me. She dislikes other people holding her and throws her body towards mommy.
But, she is definitely developmentally delayed in a lot of ways. She only drinks from a sippy cup once a day and refuses liquids the rest. Plus she won't really eat any solid foods, except baby foods and rice. We did sneak some egg in with her rice tonight and after a while she wanted it on her own, but it's very difficult to get her to eat something new. We're going to need to try cow's milk tomorrow, because she dislikes her formula (which they told us she eats).
We're going to try to visit her orphanage in a couple days and see where she's spent her time. The orphanage director was extremely sweet and even provided us with a little picture book of the orphanage and Carolina standing and playing outside of it.
They need our prayers:
- Teesa has been sick, suffering from hives due to an allergic reaction to some antibiotics. Please pray that she will get well quickly.
- Pray that everything continues to go well, and Carolina will continue to bond with her new parents, and will begin eating and drinking as she should.
- Remember to pray for Sam who is still waiting at home for Mom and Dad to return with his new sister.
Teesa sent me a few short videos of Carolina which I will upload to the blog soon. For now, here are more pictures - isn't she beautiful!! Praise God for answered prayer!!


Friday, June 05, 2009
Leaving On a Jet Plane
Thursday, June 04, 2009
Almost There
Unfortunately, I got a sinus infection and ear infection this week. So, please pray for me to get better soon and to have the strength and energy to get everything done that I need to. I honestly feel terrible, but this morning I feel better than I did even last night.
The countdown begins...
Tuesday, June 02, 2009
Happy Birthday, Adam

Just wanted to wish my brother a happy birthday. I can't believe that I forgot to send a card this year, but I did. So, in lieu of a card, today my blog is dedicated to him.

We're all grown up...33 - I think that means we're in our mid-30s now. But it's been a fun ride and I'm happy to have had my womb-mate with me through my childhood.


















